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Articles Teen Perspectives Fathering Teens - The Toughest Job of All
| Fathering Teens - The Toughest Job of All |
 The job of being a father is often viewed as being a natural and easy situation in which every man catches on eventually. Whether or not that is true, there is no dictionary of problems for father's to look up common situations and what the appropriate reactions would be.
My dad is an extraordinary person who is a definite natural when it comes to parenting. He has been there every step of the way in my life, and I try not to take it for granted. Not everyone is as lucky as I am to have such a wonderful dad. However, the tables are often turned and teenagers are not always the easiest people to handle. From mood swings to rebellion, teenage daughters are especially difficult. I often find myself thinking, "That was really rude of me" or "I should try to be nicer to him, he does so much for me." Even if I realize that my actions were not appropriate, my dad seldom holds it against me or becomes angry. As a teenager, it is sometimes difficult to express the gratitude that I have for both of my parents. The most important aspect of his parenting style, the part I am most grateful for, is his patience. He is understanding and compassionate. He does not have to "punish" me per se, because I know when my actions have disappointed him, and that is enough for me to learn a lesson. I feel that this parenting style is only effective if you have a close relationship with one another. I have respect for my dad, which helps me follow the rules. I also feel that because I behave, I get certain privileges I wouldn't get if I was rebellious or disrespectful. This might be tough for other teens, but I feel you have to look at the big picture. Does rebelling or being disrespectful get a teen anywhere in the long run? My dad is one of the most selfless people I know. He has inspired me to care about others and to think about the influence my words and actions have on others. We share a common love of baseball, which brings us closer. I feel that if teens and parents could find a hobby they both enjoy, it would only enhance their relationship. My dad does everything for my sister and I; we are so appreciative of his selfless parenting. I love my dad more than he could ever know. Writer Sarah Gallagher is an 18 year old who will be attending Shasta College in the fall. She is an activist and a Student Volunteer at Mercy Medical Center, and loves to spend time with her family and friends. |
March 2010
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