It all started last summer when the smoke from the Northern California fires stopped us kids from enjoying the great outdoors. Football camp had been cancelled (again), and my brothers and I were bouncing off the walls.
With nothing to do, we began to pick on each other and focus our thoughts on the negative-whining, complaining and teasing seemed okay to fight the boredom. A family meeting was called to order. We talked about the idea that it is just as easy to focus on the positive as the negative. It also feels better for everyone when we choose the positive. Positive thinking inspires acts of kindness. My brothers actually started getting along and complimenting each other! We talked about how our world shows negativity in television news, newspapers and the movies. It is rare to hear about what's going right, but more common to hear about what's going wrong...people stealing, getting into fights and suing each other. We decided to start the family tradition of positive thinking. It was a small change in our thoughts but it had a big effect. The next two months turned into a gigantic brainstorming session. We decided to take the "Pay it Forward" idea and bring it to life. The result: we created a company in which my brother Kevin and I took positions as CEO's, and my brothers Jake and Luke became vice presidents. We scheduled a board meeting everyday. Each one of us had a mailbox for interoffice mail and a job to complete before we reconvened the next day. I chose the name of the company and Jake created the logo. Kevin decided we needed rainbow-swirled wristbands, and Luke concluded he should have his own personal organizer.
Here are the details of our dream: Kids earn wristbands by demonstrating an act of kindness, ranging from holding a door open for someone to recording the reading of a book and delivering it to a shut-in. The wonderful thing is that each kid can decide what gifts and resources to use to make the world a better place.
Kids receive a wristband from a teacher, community leader or another kid who has already earned a wristband, and then: 1. Log on to www.passthekindness.com and enter their wristband's ID number- this is labeled on the inside of the wristband. Kids create a user name and password to enter the site, and then create a personal blog explaining when, where and how they earned their wristband.
2. Next, they focus on the positivism in the world. They look for another kid showing kindness and pass on the wristband. They should attempt to pass the wristband within three days to keep the chain going.
3. Then they explain to the receiver how to log on to the website, create a username and a password. They will have the same wristband ID. The cycle will then repeat itself with kids showing kindness, earning a wristband and logging on, only to pass the wristband on again. The idea is to get as many kids involved as possible. Kids can log onto the website at any time to see how the chain of kindness grows, and can read stories, see pictures and leave positive feedback for others. In addition, there are games to play and activities to enjoy that will inspire further acts of kindness. PassTheKindness.com is a website by kids and for kids who share the commonality of positive thinking and acts of kindness that make the world a better place. My brothers and I believe that we can inspire connections with others through the kindness we give and receive. Wristbands chains have been started all over the world. We hope our simple family tradition will inspire thousands of acts of kindness and motivate everyone to remember that it's just as easy to think and act positively as it is to think and act negatively. My brothers and I have learned that if we desire change in this big world, we should focus on the little things that we can do today instead of waiting around for an opportunity. Little things do make a big difference. And we are.
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Submitted by Jessica_Starkey: We went to a community event called Fog or Frost. We volunteered our time and helped set up the event, gave out water, kept time and cheered for the runners. We had fun, and it felt good to help out.
Submitted by J. Wizzle: First off, my friend Bobby has to use a crutch because his legs are not the best. So we were playing on the computers having a good time, but then we started to walk over to get a snack and I realized he forgot his crutch and ran over and got it for him. That is when someone else with the Pass the Kindness wristband saw me do that for Bobby and passed on the wristband.
Submitted by Spencer: I was at my school playing on the play structure when I saw a 1st grader who was crying. I went over to help him and ask him what was wrong. He had gotten hit in the face. I helped him to his classroom and told his teacher what happened. Then another teacher in my grade (3rd) came over and gave me the Pass the Kindness wristband and explained what it was about.
Submitted by mariat11: I was at the store and I saw a lady in a wheelchair. She could not open the door so I went over and opened the door for her. Her daughter gave me the bracelet.
Submitted by dogluvr: My story begins at the supermarket - there was a pregnant lady who had two kids and from what it looked like, another one due. I held the door open for her, and her youngest girl gave me the wristband.
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Writer Kara Kremer is a 6th grader at Chico Country Day School. She enjoys basketball, volleyball and soccer, and has inspired others around her to make the world a better place. Kara believes it's just as easy to be positive as it is to be negative. |